Sex toys have come a long way since the days of clunky, battery-operated buzzers hidden in bedside drawers. Today, they’re sleek, sensual, smart-tech wonders designed to enhance intimacy, deepen connection, and ignite pleasure, whether you're in a long-term relationship, newly dating, or somewhere in between.
In Australia, more and more couples are embracing the exciting world of adult toys. At Flirt Adult Store, we're here to help you navigate that journey together, openly, confidently, and with a sexy smile.
The Modern World of Sex Toys
The adult toy industry has exploded with innovation. From liquid silicone materials that feel incredibly lifelike to remote-controlled vibrators, app-connected couples toys, and an ever-expanding variety of lubricants beyond your standard KY Jelly, there’s something for everyone.
No matter your sexual orientation or relationship length, introducing sex toys can be a game-changer. They’re not a replacement for intimacy, they’re an enhancement. A way to explore new sensations, boost confidence, and keep things exciting.
How to Talk About Using Sex Toys in a Relationship
Starting the conversation about bringing toys into the bedroom might feel intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be. The key? Timing, tone, and trust.
Tips for a Positive Conversation:
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Pick the right moment: Not when your partner’s stressed after work or wrangling the kids. Choose a relaxed setting where you both feel open and connected.
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Use open-ended questions: Try, “How would you feel about exploring sex toys together?” or “Would you be open to shopping for a toy with me?”
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Be ready for any response: If it’s a no, that’s okay. You’ve opened the door for future conversations.
Remember, curiosity is sexy. And communication is key.
Three Flirty Ways to Introduce Sex Toys
1. Do Your Homework (Together)
Explore what’s out there. What excites you? What would you both like to try? Browse the Flirt Adult Store website or visit one of our 14 NSW locations to discover products together.
2. Start Small
Skip the intimidating stuff, no need to kick off with a 10-inch plug. Begin with simple, elegant, beginner-friendly toys designed for ease, comfort, and fun.
3. Build a Wish List
Create a shared Wishlist. Compare features, textures, and vibes. You might discover something unexpected you’re both eager to try.
Creating a Safe, Sexy Experience
Introducing toys into a relationship should be fun, but also respectful and consensual. Here’s how to keep it that way:
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Respect boundaries: Everyone’s comfort zone is different. Listen and respond with care.
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Communicate openly: Talk before, during, and after using a new toy. What felt amazing? What didn’t? What would you try next time?
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Aftercare matters: Physical and emotional check-ins after play help maintain trust and intimacy.
Starter Sex Toys for Couples
If you're new to the sex toy scene, here's a curated list of beginner-friendly options to help you start your journey with confidence.
Vibrators:
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Winyi Marina: Sleek, non-intimidating, waterproof and rechargeable. A great first-time vibrator.
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Soft by Playful – Lover Vibrator: Luxuriously soft, gentle, and a sensual delight for solo or shared pleasure.
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Tulip Bullet by Svakom: Small but mighty. Easy to use, powerful, and discreet.
Couples Toys:
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We-Vibe Chorus: Designed for couples, with app control and dual stimulation. Use during penetration or foreplay.
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Le Wand Massager: A classic redefined. Perfect for massage and intimate stimulation.
Explore Together:
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Feather Ticklers & Bondage Kits: For sensory exploration and playful power dynamics.
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Lubricants & Massage Oils: From flavoured lubes to silky silicone formulas, a good lube enhances everything.
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Remote-Control Toys: Add excitement with toys you or your partner can control from across the room, or the country.
Visit Flirt Adult Store
We know there’s nothing quite like getting hands-on (pun intended) when exploring something new. That’s why our friendly team at Flirt Adult Store is here to answer all your questions:
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How do the toys work?
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Are they waterproof or rechargeable?
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What materials are safest for your body?
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What lube works best with each product?
Feel the toys, test the textures, compare colours, and yes, you can do this together, even from the comfort of your bed with our online store.
The Takeaway?
Sex toys aren’t about replacing anyone, they’re about deepening your pleasure, expanding your intimacy, and creating shared experiences that bring you closer, physically and emotionally.
So go ahead, take the leap. Explore, play, communicate, and connect in new, exciting ways. There’s a whole world of sensation waiting for you.
Start your adventure at Flirt Adult Store, in-store or online, and discover how pleasure can be playful, passionate, and beautifully shared.