A-Z ALL THINGS SEX - TOYS, KNOWLEDGE & SEXUALITY

A-Z ALL THINGS SEX - TOYS, KNOWLEDGE & SEXUALITY

#Role Play

Who hasn’t fantasized about being someone else?
Role playing can be a very exciting and erotic part of your sexual journey. While it can be slightly intimidating, a tad weird and totally awkward when you first might try it, but like new things, with practice, it becomes more fun.

One main reason people like role playing in a sexual scene is to help overcome inhibitions. There might be a ‘role’ you would like to play and by using costumes and props (toys), you are more comfortable talking to your partner and acting out these fantasies. If things get a little too kinky in character you can slip out of the costume and out of the character.

There is a variety of costumes and toys to help you in the role playing game. Officer Naughty teamed with our Behave 'be good' wrist and ankle cuffs or the always popular Fluffy hand cuffs. With a variety of whips and crops, you can decide the punishment. If that is chained up, we have some fantastic bed restraints such as Scandal 'over the bed' cross.

OFFICER NAUGHTY COSTUME
OFFICER NAUGHTY COSTUME
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BEHAVE BE GOOD WRIST CUFFS
BEHAVE BE GOOD WRIST CUFFS
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SCANDAL OVER THE BED CROSS
SCANDAL OVER THE BED CROSS
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When you’re in character, you may say and do things that are outside the normality of your usual bedroom antics. It is important to discuss this with your partner and understand that just because you want to try a role play and/or fantasy today, this is not what or how you want it every day.
Role play can take their own turns in the moment so it’s always important to have a safe word to use when you may feel a little uncomfortable, or when in times you aren't able to speak, have the 'safe word' an action. This is especially important in roleplay that might involve physical dominance.

Understanding role play
Some people find fantasy vs real life hard to explain to partners as sometimes your role or job in ‘real’ life might be one of power. The CEO of a company with all the power and responsibility on your shoulders yet in the bedroom you fantasize about the exact opposite and have someone else yield the power. Understanding that you can have the best of both worlds in empowering. Your bedroom should be a place where you can play with role reversal, risk, dominance, submission, whatever you’re ‘scene’ is as long as it’s consensual.
If you like to be a submissive and have your partner control you maybe try the Scandal Collar and Leash or maybe by blindfolding you with Scandal's sexy Eye Mask, that is between you two.

SCANDAL COLLAR WITH LEASH
SCANDAL COLLAR WITH LEASH
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SCANDAL EYE MASK
SCANDAL EYE MASK
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Have confidence in the role!
People often do feel a little shy when they begin role playing. Moving past the self -judgement is the key to getting to the fun stuff. Buy the costume, change your hair, alter your make up, all these things can help you get into character. The most important factor to discuss with your partner is not to judge each other on what your fantasies might be. It’s a whole new world, a special one for you and your partner………and Lexi (that’s my alter ego in my role playing world)

Here are some popular role playing scenarios which might make the decision easier for you:

*Professor/student

*Cheerleader/football player

*Massage therapist/client

*Cop/criminal

*Nurse/patient

*Housekeeper/home owner

Don’t be afraid to step outside of your ‘normal’ – it can be so much fun and we are here to help in a non judgemental environment.

PLAY - STUDENT BODY SCHOOLGIRL COSTUME
PLAY - STUDENT BODY SCHOOLGIRL COSTUME
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PLAY - CROWD PLEASER CHEERLEADER COSTUME
PLAY - CROWD PLEASER CHEERLEADER COSTUME
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CURVE - NIGHT SERVICE MAID COSTUME
CURVE - NIGHT SERVICE MAID COSTUME
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FETISH FANTASY OBEDIENCE BOXER WITH LEASH
FETISH FANTASY OBEDIENCE BOXER WITH LEASH
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