As we begin the excitement of 2024, it’s the perfect time to reflect back on 2023, and all the fun we had. At Flirt, we discovered a variety of innovative adult products that were loved by our staff and clients alike!
Whether you found that perfect toy, or are still on the lookout, here are a few of our favourite toys we discovered in 2023. Looking to buy adult toys online? You’ve come to the right place!
First, we’d like to highlight the Snail Vibe Gizi!
You may be familiar with standard rabbit vibrators, which combine the dual stimulation of both the clit and the g-spot simultaneously.
What makes the Snail Vibe Gizi special is its ability to find the optimal insertion depth, targeting not only the G-spot but also the A-spot at the peak of arousal.
Its ‘snail’ shape has been carefully crafted to suit the anatomical features of the female body, ensuring comfortable and effective stimulation.
This one’s for the couples! Whether you and your partner regularly use toys, or are seeking to add an adventurous twist, the WhipSmart Yoga Pleasure Swing is a game-changer.
This sex swing, with silky yet sturdy fabric straps, allows couples to explore a wide range of vertical and horizontal positions. If you’re unsure how to introduce sex toys into the bedroom, this is a great place to start, as it allows you to do all the acts you would normally do, only at better angles and positions!
It encourages flexibility, creativity, and deeper connections between partners.
If you’re looking for a single toy that does it all, then the Satisfyer Triple Lover is for you! Why buy a wand, a clitoral vibrator or a g-spot vibrator, when you can get a toy that functions as all three?
With its three powerful motors, this toy offers a multitude of uses, and it’s never been more convenient to try different things in the same self-love session!
When it comes to finding a great sex toy, privacy usually isn’t the first thing that we think of. However, the Shower therapy range has redefined privacy and convenience with its subtle design, and we’re all here for it!
Designed to resemble a regular shampoo bottle, this stroker can be easily hidden in any bathroom setting. Available in two styles - Deep Cream and Milk me Honey - it ensures that self-care routines are never dull.
We'd love to hear about your favourite products of 2023! Share a review and help others find their perfect match.
Whether you're looking to spice up your solo sessions or enhance your intimacy with a partner, Flirt Adult Store caters to everyone. Browse our full range here.
At Flirt, we pride ourselves on being the best adult shop Australia-wide. We’re proud to stock a wide range of specialist toy cleaners that are specifically designed for the cleaning of sex toys.
Regardless of what cleaning product you choose, there are a few general tips that it’s helpful to follow throughout the cleaning process.
Sex toys come in a wide range of different materials, such as silicone, glass, metal, or rubber. Each material is different when it comes to cleaning and care.
Silicone toys, for example, are best cleaned with water-based solutions, while non-motorised glass or metal toys can often be boiled for complete sterilisation.
No one likes reading manuals, but it still needs to be done! Different toys – especially those with electrical components – may require special cleaning methods.
Different materials and designs may also have specific recommendations to ensure optimal hygiene and prevent damage to the product.
Selecting the right cleaning product is key to ensuring a hygienic, clean, and an undamaged toy. To this end, the Flirt team recommend always using specially designed toy cleaners.
These cleaners are specifically formulated to eliminate bacteria and germs without damaging the delicate materials of your adult toys.
Don’t use soap or household cleaners, and don’t compromise on hygiene!
Across our range, you will find cleaners that are specifically designed for certain uses, such as the following:
This intimate item is designed with a gentle formula that works fast and leaves no nasty residue on your toys. Not to mention it's kind to your soft skin too.
The water-based System Jo is free of fragrance and regular use should prolong the life of your favourite toy.
All you need to do is apply a coating foam and leave for 5 to 10 second before rinsing clean. You'll be amazed by how squeaky clean this leaves your toys without the need for scrubbing or rubbing. But of course, some hard to clean spots may need a more careful massage just in case.
Once you’ve done cleaning, this dusting powder is perfect for refreshing your favourite toys to keep them in tip-top shape and maintain their lifelike texture. It’s designed for self-lubricating toys to keep them ready to go! If you’re not sure what they are, check them out!
In order to ensure the long-term cleanliness of your toys, storage is also an important factor. Once you’ve washed and dried your toys, keep them in a cool, dry place, and consider purchasing individual pouches or containers to keep them safe and secure.
This also gives an inviting allure to your toys which makes playtime feel just a little extra special.
Taking care of your sex toys is not just about cleanliness. It's about ensuring a safe and pleasurable experience every time.
At Flirt Adult Store, we're committed to providing the products and information that ensure you can have all the fun you like in a safe and positive environment.
View our full range here, or learn more in our extensive blog section.
]]>As we age, our bodies and minds are constantly changing. What worked for you in your twenties may not be the same in your thirties or forties.
Naturally, this is applicable to sex too. You may find yourself losing interest in sexual activities you previously enjoyed or becoming interested in new ones. As our bodies get older, we have reduced stamina. Embracing this and remaining open-minded is essential for maintaining a fulfilling sex life.
As adults, our relationships become more complex. We may experience a variety of different types of relationships, from monogamy to open relationships and casual ones. Proper sex education plays a vital role in navigating these dynamics by teaching us effective communication, consent, and the importance of sexual health in relationships.
One great benefit of practising ongoing sexual education and open-mindedness is the plethora of doors it opens. You may have existing kinks and fantasies, but at Flirt, we say you can never have too many! And the only way you can learn how to engage with them safely and healthily is through learning.
Once you’ve discovered a new kink or fantasy, the journey to mastering it begins and you can begin to learn things about yourself all over again.
Sex education for adults can also help you to understand and communicate your desires to your partner, leading to a more satisfying and enjoyable sex life for you both.
Effective communication is the cornerstone of any successful sexual relationship. Sex education provides valuable tools for expressing your desires, boundaries, and consent. These skills are vital for creating a safe and enjoyable sexual experience.
Sex and mental health are closely intertwined. Understanding the connection between the two can help individuals overcome issues such as performance anxiety, body image insecurities, and past trauma. Sex education can provide valuable insights and resources to address these concerns.
Society's attitudes towards sex continually evolve. Staying informed about these changes can help adults avoid outdated stereotypes or harmful beliefs. Adult sex education keeps you up to date with the latest information and helps you adapt to changing norms.
Sex education is about far more than the birds and the bees it's about understanding ourselves, our partners, and the fluidity of human sexuality.
At Flirt, we believe that education, open communication, open-mindedness and a positive attitude towards sexuality are the keys to a satisfying, fulfilling, and healthy sex life throughout adulthood. Never stop learning, growing, and exploring, and remember that we're here to support you every step of the way.
At Flirt Adult Store, we believe in the power of pleasure, self-expression, and the importance of destigmatising the different taboos around sex. Much of this begins with accessibility, and at Flirt, not only do we stock a wide range of toys for everyone and anyone, but we also have a variety of locations, from Dubbo to Armidale. Sex stores not your thing? We also have an extensive online store, so you can shop from the comfort of your own home!
The journey towards a more fulfilling sex life begins with breaking down any walls or barriers and embracing your personal desires in a healthy and non-judgemental environment.
Societies all around the world have long been constrained by rigid norms about sexuality. Sex is often painted as a private, even shameful, act that should not be openly discussed or explored. This leads to a range of societal issues, such as a lack of sex education in schools, which leads to the spread of sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies.
Like other aspects of sex, sex toys face taboos of their own. Some label them as tools for people who struggle to find partners, while for couples, they may be characterised as compensation for something missing in their relationship. In reality, the use of sex toys by individuals and couples signifies empowered people who are open and embracing of their sexuality.
Embracing a sex positive attitude doesn't mean you need to publicly share the intimate details of your sex life. Many people choose to keep their personal experiences private, and as long as this decision isn't influenced by societal pressure, it's entirely valid.
With this in mind, it's understandable why someone might feel a tad uncomfortable when shopping for a sex toy in a public setting.
Societal conditioning has ingrained these taboos deeply, but it's essential to remember that it's perfectly normal to feel this way. However, the initial discomfort is a small price to pay for the pleasures and benefits that await you. For those who prefer a more private option, we provide an all-encompassing online store.
Fortunately, the tide is turning, and the stigma of sex toys is being gradually reduced as people become more sex-positive. In response, the market is booming, and sex toy manufacturers are producing a wider range of products that cater to a diverse range of preferences and orientations. There’s a sex toy (or a bunch!) out there for everyone, so it has never been a better time to browse our store and pick up something to spice up your sex life!
At Flirt Adult Store, we invite you to explore our wide selection of high-quality, pleasure-enhancing products without fear or judgement. Our friendly and knowledgeable staff are here to assist you, answer questions, and provide guidance in a non-judgmental and respectful environment.
Embrace your desires, break free from the stigma, and embark on a journey to a more satisfying and fulfilling sex life. Shop now and discover the joys of shame-free pleasure!
]]>A fan favourite for sure! There’s something elegant yet adventurous about a good old piece of chocolate. We understand that are too many options we provide around this classic and choosing can be overwhelming. But why choose when you could get away with not making up your mind?Try out GoodHead’s chocolate flavoured pack that comes with five flavours! This way you don’t get any flavour FOMO and your next five flavour forays will be as new and exciting as the last.
Sticky and sweet are two words that tend to work wonders in the culinary world. These are the textures and flavours that hold potential to elevate the simplest of joys, but in the classiest of ways. If it’s a little bit of sugar lovin’ you’re craving? Then you’re on the right track with this flavour range. The Swiss Navy range of lubes have gained popularity for their strong flavour profiles.
Are you the kind that tends to lean towards the fruity side of life? If your answer is yes, then don’t hesitate to mix and match with System Jo’s H2O range of water-based lubes! From a mango smoothie to a peachy peck perhaps? Feel free to bundle your lubes so that you could potentially mix it up and see what feels right in the moment.
A relaxed citrus vibe, with a little bit of a tang; how does that sound to you? To us, it sound like sweet, summer vibes all the way! We recommend fancying it up a bit with System Jo Naturals Massage Oil, or even Shiatsu’s Body Oil.
Turn any occasion into a celebration with Wicked Aqua’s lube in birthday cake flavour! You’d be surprised to find out how tasty this product is going to make your next playtime, with no aftertaste or stickiness to add on to the mess!
Regardless of whatever anyone thinks, you must admit that vanilla will always remain as the OG classic, irrespective of time or age. Sometimes, plain is good. Besides the lubes and body oil range, consider the Shiatsu massage candle in the vanilla crème scent. We can assure you that it’ll be setting a lot more than the mood.
Once you’ve tasted it, you’ll be hooked. It’s exactly the type of morning buzz that we’d all want to wake up to. The System Jo Gelato collection of flavours have gathered quite the fan base. The flavour notes aren’t just good for a spicy private session, but rather even a zero calorie treat to use on top of your ice cream of pancake!
If there’s one thing we know for sure? It’s how to spice it up when the doors close. Trust us to know what we’re talking about and give these flavours a go. If you need more inspiration, head to our website right away and see if you can find something more to your tastes!
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]]>It’s hardly ideal, but long-distance relationships are a reality for many couples and a longing for intimate moments doesn’t fade with distance. In fact, the old saying, “absence makes the heart grow fonder” may have been said about this specific situation.
If you and your significant other find yourself apart when the moment hits, you might find yourself looking up the nearest sex store Wagga Wagga to Coffs Harbour and several locations in between will satisfy your desires, thanks to Flirt’s many convenient stores.
If you prefer to shop for sex toys online, you’ll have to sit and wait for the postman, but once that exciting little package arrives, you’ll be good to go. Your long-distance relationship will be ready to go to the next level.
In this blog post, we'll explore how couples can use sex toys to bring get closer, no matter how far apart they may be.
Communication is Key
Before delving into the exciting world of sex toys, it's crucial to lay down a foundation of open and honest communication. Discussing desires, boundaries, and comfort levels is essential to ensure that both partners are on the same page. A respectful and understanding conversation can help create a safe space for exploring new avenues of intimacy.
Talk about what you like to hear or read over the phone and what phrases might give you the ick. There’s nothing worse than ruining the mood with your partner’s biggest red flag because you didn’t talk about boundaries beforehand.
Choosing the Right Toys
With a plethora of options available, selecting the right sex toys can be overwhelming. Begin by considering both partners' preferences and comfort levels. Vibrators, remote-controlled toys, and lingerie can all play a role in keeping the connection alive.
Do your research together as this can be the most fun part of the experience — okay, one of the most fun parts. By shopping together, you can discuss different toys as they come up and learn what interests you share.
Embracing Remote-Controlled Toys
Everyone is always talking about the key to long-distance relationships. Well, we’re here to tell you, it’s remote-controlled sex toys.
These little beauties can be a game-changer for long-distance couples as they can be controlled via smartphone apps. This allows one partner to control the sensations experienced by the other, no matter the distance.
Whether it's a wearable vibrator or a stroker for men, these toys create a sense of physical closeness that transcends geographical boundaries.
Scheduled Playtime
Maintaining a routine in a long-distance relationship can help counter feelings of isolation. Set aside dedicated "playtime" where both partners can engage with their chosen sex toys together. This shared experience can heighten anticipation and excitement, simulating the feeling of being physically present with each other.
Exploring Fantasies
Distance can provide a unique opportunity to delve into fantasies that might not be as easily explored in person. Share your fantasies with your partner and incorporate sex toys that align with those desires. This shared exploration can lead to a deeper understanding of each other's fantasies and further strengthen your emotional bond.
Contact Flirt
If you’re feeling the distance between you and your loved one, trust Flirt to suggest your next sex toy and light the long-distance spark. Just because you’re apart, doesn’t mean you don’t deserve to feel close.
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But have you heard about outercourse before?
This particular type of pleasure is a sexual activity where people give their partner or partners non-penetrative sexual pleasure – with consent, of course. This specific type of pleasure is subjective for each person. For instance, some might consider everything except the physical penetration of a penis in a vagina as outercourse. But some might exclude the use of fingers, toys or even anal.
If you’re curious to learn more about this type of pleasure and how you can incorporate it into your bedroom, then you’re in luck. We’re going to do a deep dive into all things outercourse in today’s blog.
But wait, isn’t it just foreplay?
While you may think that outercourse is just a fancy name for foreplay, these two terms are actually quite different.
Foreplay alludes to the concept that you start with external pleasure like kissing, sucking or even role-playing, but it often leads to penetration of some kind. Penetrative sex will, almost always, follow foreplay.
Outercourse, however, starts and ends without penetration. For example, you might use a mens masturbator to help work towards an orgasm, all without physical penetration.
So what activities fall under outercourse?
There are many different sexual activities that can fall under outercourse. A great way to get started is to explore your partner’s erogenous zones through kissing, light stroking or even a gentle pinch. This allows you and your partner to explore what turns you both on, as well as discover which body parts you can both focus on for intense pleasure.
If your definition of outercourse includes masturbation, then why not mutually masturbate with your partner? This type of outercourse is inclusive of touching each other’s genitals at the same time, or even giving yourself intense pleasure while staring into your partner's eyes. Mutual masturbation is a fantastic way to understand how your partner likes to receive pleasure on a deeper level.
You can also use different types of sex toys to stimulate areas of your body without penetration, such as vibrators for clitorises and rings for penises.
How will outercourse benefit your pleasure?
There are many ways outercourse can increase your pleasure in the bedroom. For starters, outercourse gives you the opportunity to explore different kinks and role play, such as the use of blindfolds or gags, restraints and even a whip or paddle.
Through outercourse, you can still get your dose of pleasure but without the risk of falling pregnant, as there’s no penetration. And if you experience painful penetrative sex, or are menstruating, then outercourse can be an excellent avenue for experiencing pleasure without discomfort.
Take your pleasure to the next level with Flirt
Whether you want to try a bit of bondage or experiment with a new toy or two, Flirt has a wide array of collections to help you take your pleasure to the next level. Explore our online range today or visit us in-store for expert advice on enhancing your pleasure.No matter your gender, masturbating is often talked about in hushed tones and with an air of scandal around it. But this stigma surrounding self-pleasure needs to go. It’s not scandalous to make yourself feel good by eating a block of cheese (if that’s your thing), and it shouldn’t be taboo to derive those same good feelings from masturbating.
Masturbation, on the surface level, is when you stimulate your genitals for pleasure. It’s also an excellent way to explore what you want from sex or sex-adjacent activities. And if you discover that masturbating isn’t your vibe, then there are other ways for you to explore your sexuality.
But if you do find yourself wanting to explore what works for you sexually, then there are some great health benefits that also come from masturbating. As a leading adult shop Australia-wide, we’re going to do a deep dive into the health benefits of masturbation, so you can feel good both in the moment and the long term.
Increased relaxation
One of the more well-known health benefits of masturbation is the relaxation you might feel when stimulating your genitals. And if you work yourself up to an orgasm, you’re releasing an abundance of happy hormones, such as dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin and more. This potion of goodness allows you to feel relaxed in the moment, meaning you won’t be thinking about tomorrow’s to-do list or anything that might typically lead to stress.
In addition to feeling less stressed or overwhelmed, regular masturbation can also help you sleep better. If you set aside time before you would normally go to sleep to masturbate, you can effectively release that concoction of happy hormones to relax your body – with or without an orgasm – which can help you quickly drift off to sleep.
Less cramping
If you're a person who menstruates and deals with regular period pain, then you’re in luck. Masturbating can help temporarily relieve those pesky and painful period cramps due to the increased blood flow to your genitals.
Another period-adjacent benefit of regular masturbation is the development of a strong pelvic floor. When you orgasm, the muscles surrounding your reproductive organs contract. This contraction is what helps strengthen your pelvic floor. The long-term benefits of a strengthened pelvic floor is an increased sexual sensation as well as having better bladder control.
Reduced risk of prostate cancer
Should you be someone with a prostate, we’ve got you covered too! Regular masturbation – or even sex itself – can help reduce your risk of prostate cancer. When people with a penis orgasm, they will ejaculate fluid which can help get rid of any potential bacteria that might lead to cancer.
Better communication between partners
One of the great things about masturbating is that it allows you to communicate what works for you to your partner. Masturbation is a fantastic time for you to find what feels good for you, which is something you can communicate to your partner verbally or visually.
Masturbation is also a fantastic way to connect with your partner sexually without sex. You can test different toys on each other, explore outercourse, or just go for it in front of each other. Masturbating with your partner allows the two of you to experience sexual pleasure but without the risk to your health.
Flirt
When it comes to self exploration and discovery, then masturbation is a fantastic way to discover what sexual play works for you. And whether you go solo or team up with a partner, Flirt Adult Store has a number of different toys to help you find what feels good. Explore our range today, and take your next masturbating session to the next level.https://www.pexels.com/photo/fashion-man-couple-love-6778735/
]]>Adult sex stores can be daunting places to go but we do everything we can to make you feel comfortable in-store. When you shop in-store, you’re welcome to browse on your own or ask our sexperts for advice – whatever you’re into!
If party play is your scene, we have a great range of sex toys to suit your needs and keep the party going all night long.
You can find each toy from this blog on Flirt shelves or through our online store, so there’s no excuse not to give it a try!
We-Vibe Match
When we think party play, we think We-Vibe! The Match is one of many remote-controlled vibrators from the We-Vibe range that allows anyone to control the toy from a distance, or while they engage in… other activities.
Match is designed to be worn by vagina-owners during sex, applying intense vibrations to the G-Spot and clitoris in a range of patterns and speeds.
With a full charging time of 90 minutes and a playtime of up to 2 hours, the Match is perfect for some group bonding sessions. Better yet, the toy’s body-safe silicone makes it easy to wash between wearers and should it suits a range of body types.
Party Games
Perhaps you’re looking to start the night off tame with a bit of a game, but you’re stuck for ideas.
Secret Missions: Girls Night Out – available in our store – is sure to get the gals worked up with some cheeky directions that lead straight for trouble.
Have the host assign a mission to each party member and let them run rampant on their quest to seduce the waiter; earn a free drink; or lose some clothing.
With your hearts racing and laughs all around, you’ll be in the mood to settle right down later on.
A Sex Swing
There’s someone at the door. Oh sorry, on the door! The Scandal Over-the-Door Swing should keep a couple of you company while the others take the bed.
This universal swing harness includes sturdy straps and bar hooks to keep you swinging in place as you rock and roll into ecstasy.
Everyone is welcome to try this throughout the night as it comes fully adjustable and equipped to fit both standard and oversized doors.
The double-padded and pillowy soft arm and thigh straps allow you to totally relax as you’re suspended off the ground, at the perfect height to meet your match for the night.
You’ll be a sight to behold for the rest of the party as they line up to get to know you a little closer. Just remember to adjust the height of the straps as each party member takes their turn.
Ready to Flirt?
Didn’t we tell you? There’s a great range of toys, games and equipment in our store to get the party started. Dip your toe or dive right into party play and you sure won’t regret it.
For more information on the products mentioned above, get in touch or visit our store and we’ll guide you towards the toy that’s right for you.At Flirt Adult Store, we're your one-stop shop for all things sex, from vibrators to strap ons. If you’ve heard of it, we’ve got it. Just take a look at our enticing bondage range! Whether you’re well-acquainted with the world of bondage, or you are just getting started, we’ve got everything you need to satisfy your wildest fantasies.
If you’re not sure where to start, here are some of the most popular products from our bondage gear range that are sure to get you and your partner’s hearts racing.
High-quality, specially designed rope is a bondage staple. At Flirt, we find the Behave Bind Love Rope to be among the most reliable. This rope is made out of silky smooth terylene and cotton, perfect for keeping your partner right where you want them.
With 10 metres of rope, you’ll have more than enough to play with. Tie each other up and let your imaginations run wild. Whether you’re into domination or submission, everybody can enjoy this high quality rope.
If you’re looking for some bondage inspiration, check out Fifty Days of Play. This game is perfect for couples who are looking for a bit of motivation to explore their kinky side. Fifty Days of Play features 50 secret envelopes, each with its own erotic surprise. If you want to try some new bondage methods in the bedroom, but aren’t sure where to start, let this game decide for you! One day you might be dominating your partner, and the next day, the roles are reversed! Only the envelope can decide.
Play it as a game, or sneak an envelope into your partner's bag when they’re not watching, teasing them all day for a night they will never forget.
There’s no better combination than bondage and handcuffs, and with these fluffy cuffs, there’ll be no question that a night of intense fun is approaching. These cuffs ensure that you or your partner are kept securely in the perfect position.
Our Fluffy Cuffs are great for beginners, they’re perfectly functional and secure, but their soft touch and bright colours are a great reminder not to take things too seriously. As long as you and your partner are enjoying yourselves, that's all that matters.
Fulfil Your Fantasy at Flirt Adult Store
Your wildest fantasies become reality at Flirt Adult Store! Our huge range ensures you’ll find the perfect toy for your every desire.
Whether you’re into bondage, blindfolds, or something else entirely, we’ve got you covered. So what are you waiting for? Browse our range now, all from the comfort of your home!
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]]>Well, we’re glad to tell you that both sides can be satisfied at the same time, provided you approach things the right way.
Sexual intimacy is so important to most* couples (*we see you, asexuals!) and introducing sex toys into your ‘activities’ can bring an entirely new dimension to your relationship.
In the past, the mere mention of sex toys, games or bondage gear could have been considered taboo, but today they are as commonplace as the bed itself and add a lot of excitement in a lot of different ways.
So, let’s not dance around the subject. Let’s discuss exactly how sex toys could be a boon in the bedroom and bring you closer to your partner than ever before.
We won’t deny that increased pleasure is a major selling point for sex toys, but we’re going to focus on the lovey-dovey side of the coin first.
The introduction of sex toys between a couple can take a lot of trust, patience, understanding and communication.
Many people might feel overwhelmed by their first toy being more complicated than the terms and conditions, so it pays to test the waters slowly.
This begins with an open and honest conversation about why they might be a good idea for you, and what form they might take.
This will be initiated by one of you at some point and the best-case scenario is that you were both thinking the same thing. The next best is that the other person feels cautious but open-minded and will need to be reassured of the benefits.
This whole process of open communication and trust is sure to strengthen any relationship as each person works on making the other feel comfortable.
Once the toy is bought online or in-store, the real intimacy can begin. Some people feel threatened by sex toys and feel as if their partner will replace them with the toy. It’s paramount to raise these concerns with your partner and allow them to reassure you that these toys must be seen as sex enhancers and not sex replacers.
When used right, these little wonders can benefit both of you at the same time – it’s all a matter of practice and creativity.
Okay, let’s get down to the nitty-gritty. The whole point of sex toys is that they’re designed to feel really, REALLY good. Or, you know, just really good – we’re all different and you can’t expect every toy to suit every body.
As you dive into the world of sex toys, be aware that it will likely take some time and experimentation to find what works for you and your partner.
Don’t see this as an obstacle, but an opportunity to explore your sexual relationship with yourself and with your partner.
There are so many toys that you might not be aware of – your favourite sexual act may not have ever been considered before! It can be a really exciting journey for both of you, so long as you allow it to unfold.
You might not realise it because it’s rarely discussed, but sexual dissatisfaction can lead to real anxiety in the bedroom.
An inability to finish or to pleasure your partner can hurt relationships and individuals when a person may have simply missed their ticket to satisfaction.
They’re never a surefire way to improve your sex life, but if you haven’t tried toys then you can’t claim to have tried everything.
The cruel cycle of sexual dissatisfaction can create an aversion to such activities, causing a person to believe they simply don’t enjoy sex. In turn, when they try to enjoy it, their anxiety gets the better of them and this stops them from enjoying the experience.
Enter: sex toys.
Using sex toys together can help to create a safe and supportive environment where partners can explore their desires without fear of judgement or rejection. This can lead to increased sexual confidence and a more fulfilling sex life.
Perhaps you’ve always felt close to orgasm but couldn’t cross the finish line – sex toys may be the superpower you need to open doors to new sexual dimensions.
As we said, you can’t knock it until you try it.
If you have any questions about sex toys, allow our friendly team to fill you in and give you the advice that could change your life.
We’ll blow your mind with product recommendations or tips on how to get the best out of a recent purchase.
Get in touch via our contact page and let’s talk – dirty
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From nipple play clamps to grips and pulls, in this blog we will explore all the different toys that we love and how you can use them.
Not only do these look stylish, they pinch your nipples to great lengths of pleasure. These little orbs apply pressure and are extremely powerful. Play a game with your partner and see how long they can keep them in place. Once the pressure relaxes, your partner will be in all kinds of pleasure.
Our favourite for this type of nipple play are the Masterseries Magnus. Coming with a set of two, these toys measure 9.3mm in diameter and are coated in metal.
Another sexy take on these are the Ouch Magnetic Nipple Clamps in Diamond Bullets or the Ouch Magnetic Nipple Clamps in Diamond Pin which you can put in the freezer to cool down or a bowl of hot water to heat up!
These sexy little numbers act as a pump of sorts. They grip your nipples to plump them up and make them extra sensitive – yes please!
The 9S Nip-Pulls Nipple Pumps are small, flexible and soft. Perfect for creating rosy nips and heightened sensation, these pulls are made from silicone so they’re comfy and safe.
Making nipples tight with the ability to tug, these toys can come in the form of feathers with clips on the end, chains or a peg style clip. Tug on the chain or fluff up the feathers, nipple clamps are one of the most popular of the nipple toy variety.
What are we choosing? It’s a hard one but one of our favourites is the Ouch O-ring with Nipple Clamps. This can be tugged on while your partner’s screams are muffled with pleasure with an o-ring gag in their mouth.
The Ouch Adjustable Nipple Clamps are another great option for extra stimulation. Plus they have a chain attached for extra stimulation and tugging.
One of newest options on the market is the Lovense Gemini which offers the first ever app-controlled vibrating nipple clamps. Perfect for foreplay or roleplay, this exciting toy can be secretly taken out for sexy adventures.
Similar to clamps and clips, pegs squeeze the nipples to enhance sensations. Find the Nipple Pegs at Flirt, which are made from durable stainless steel. Cute and clippy!
The last item on our list is nipple grips. These feisty little numbers are similar to clips and clamps but offer an adjustable design.
One of our favourites is the Nipple Grips Power Grip Crossbar. These are the perfect way to tease your partner with nipple play. The screws are adjustable, they’re easy to use and can even be used on other parts of the body.
Another fun take on the grips are the Power Grip 4-Point Weighted Nipple Press. These little numbers are heavy duty with loads of weighted pleasure.
The options are endless with nipple play. Whatever tickles your fancy, there’s always a toy for it so start exploring!
Whether you’re just starting out your toy journey or you’re a seasoned expert, as always Flirt is here for your journey.
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Everything is fast and hard, and unless you like it like that, it can be overwhelming at the best of times. Swiping left and right or receiving intimate questions straight off the bat can make building true intimacy hard. Due to this fast-paced world of technology, people want to spend less and less time searching for “the one” or the one who will warm their bed for the night.
The apps can make people lazy, but they can also help you find exactly who you’re looking for. There are many LGBTQ+ friendly apps out there such as Grindr, Scruff, BiCupid and more. There are also apps to help you find someone into the same fetishes and kinks as you, such as Feeld.
Whether you want a one-night stand or are looking for your future spouse, no one cares as long as you’re honest. There’s nothing worse than going on a date to find out they were looking for their soulmate and you were just looking for some fun or vice versa. Be 100% open about what you’re looking for on the apps.
If you’re looking for commitment, be honest about who you are and the type of person you’re looking for. Don’t lie and say you like hiking if you hate the outdoors because you think it will get you a fit partner. The same goes for saying you like cooking when you can barely boil an egg. The point is, be open about what you want and who you are, and the right person will find you!
A very important one to do before you jump on the apps is set boundaries! These apps are designed to be addictive and often, you will become obsessed with swiping and using them. Set aside time each day to use them instead of checking them all day, everyday.
Keep a limit on the number of dates you go on per week as you can easily become burnt out. This means you may not be giving your best self to those who you are meeting. This can also cause confusion among the people you’re dating as you can quickly mistake a date for another by accident.
Ensure your first dates are ALWAYS in a public area. This can be a walk or coffee but keeping it public keeps you safe. You don't know this person so ensure you meet them IRL before heading back to either person’s place. Stay safe and message a friend where you are going and even the address of the person’s place if you plan to go back.
Your right person may not come along for months or even years but don’t give up hope! There are plenty of fish on the apps so don’t expect the first, second, third or heck, even the 20th date to be the one. You’ll probably have some fun along the way and if you end up not getting what you’re after, you’ve got Flirt to give you a helping hand when you get home.
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Opt for non-porous materials such as Pyrex, stainless steel, silicone or glass. These
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Whether you’re exploring new ways to enjoy sex, not in the mood for penetrative styles or seeking undiscovered foreplay, this blog will give you some insight into pleasure and orgasm that doesn’t involve filling someone or getting filled.
From nipple play clamps to grindable vibrators, read on for your pleasure.
Getting wet can be made easier with a little tongue action. Whether you're working the clitoris or labia, or the shaft or head of a penis, oral sex doesnt need to be penetrative, it can involve licking, spitting, touching and kissing. Oral sex can be the perfect non-pentrative play or lead-up to penetrative play.
Caressing, gently biting, touching, pinching or sucking your partner's nipples can be an extremely sexy way to get someone off. Sensitivity and enjoyment varies from person to person in terms of nipple play so make sure you ask what your partner likes either before or during your play.
For those that are blessed with nipple sensitivity, you can enhance the experience with some toys such as Nipple Grips, Nip-Pulls or Nipple Play vibrating clamps.
Test out what you like before you remove nipple play from your repertoire. Some people like the pulling feeling and others like the pinching feeling – try it all!
Think you’re too old to dry hump? It’s underrated! This can be one of the hottest ways to get off and can be very inconspicuous in public – if that’s your thing. Add in a little dirty talk while you grind on your partner's lap or knee for a bit of extra kink.
Add a little vibration to your play session. Vibrators are a great way to add stimulation without penetration. Use them on nipples, the clitoris or all over the body. The Ynez is a cute little handheld vibrator with an ergonomic design that’s perfect with ribbed vibration. Try the Maia for a textured feel to enjoy mild to intense stimulation all over the body.
No matter what your choice of play is, the key is to explore with your partner or even by yourself! Whether you want to add toys or not, Flirt are here to help you along your pleasure journey.
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BDSM stands for bondage, discipline or domination, sadism or submission and masochism. Utilising one or more of these means you’re engaging in BDSM.
Sitting under the kink or fetish umbrella of the sex world, BDSM can involve a huge range of different types of sexual or non-sexual acts. This type of play can range from sensual shibari to flogging with the intention to cause pain and ultimately pleasure to your partner – with discussed prior consent.
In this blog series, we will explore different types of BDSM that aren’t as well-known. So pop on your bondage gear and start your BDSM journey of pleasure and/or pain.
Not for the unskilled or faint of heart, shibari is an art form before it is a sex act. Originating in Japan, shibari is when one person ties up another. It can be used for stimulation, relaxation or combined into another type of sex scene of your choosing.
Shibari gives you freedom to be creative with how you tie up your partner. It's beautiful and decorative, ranging from simple wrist ties, hogties and chest-harnesses, all the way to webbed suspensions.
What Type of Play is Shibari?
Shibari is a combination of different BDSM practices. The BDSM acronyms that you use will depend on how you want your scene to go.
Often taking place over hours at a time, shibari can be sensual but requires plenty of trust, complemented by a calm and submissive mindset from the person being tied up – the rope bunny.
Shibari allows the tyer to create a completely submissive rope bunny who psychically has little control of their own movement. This allows for a fun submissive/dominating play session, giving the dominant full control over their submissive.
As the rope bunny has no control and often cannot even get up depending on the ties, both parties need to be comfortable with what the scene will entail. The dominant and submission should have prior discussion of what will happen within the scene.
You can combine shibari with roleplay scenarios if you dare. Think of naughty students and teachers, or even a kidnapping scene – maybe leave this one to the experts.
Another addition to your play session can be impact play. A good way to learn about safety, along with communication, consent and basic bondage is to attend a Flirt Shibari Session by Kinky in the Country.
While shibari is complicated at first, try a few simple knots before delving into suspension styles. We recommend watching YouTube videos, reading books, or signing up for classes, because shibari is far from a simple BDSM practice!
When your skills are up to scratch, try our Behave Bind or Boundless Rope for quality ties.
At the end of the day, your BDSM play sessions are YOURS (and your partner/s)! It’s customisable to you and your partner’s wants and needs. As long as you're engaging in consensual and communicative play, the BDSM world is your oyster!
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In this blog we will delve into all things hot wax. Once you’re ready browse our extensive adult store for all your needs.
A form of sensation and temperature play, wax play involves the dripping of hot wax. It can be on your partner; your partner can do it to you, or you can do it to yourself.
Some get enjoyment from the heat, some from the sensual pouring that the act involves, and others relish in the feeling of the hardened wax being pulled off their skin.
Education always comes first when you're experimenting with new types of play. Wax involves fire and fire can cause a multitude of hazards. Clear the room of flammable liquids such as alcohol to avoid any mishaps.
The hot wax comes from lighting a specific type of candle and letting the wax melt for a while. This hot wax is then poured on any part of the body for a sensual feeling of your choosing. Avoid internal parts such as the eyes, ears, and mouth. It's difficult to get wax out of hair so avoid any hairy parts!
Consider your, and your partner’s, pain tolerance. Test out the temperature of the wax on the back of a hand or wrist first to ensure it's not too hot! Remember certain parts of your body are more sensitive such as genitals and nipples.
Wax is messy! Make sure you prepare for it! Put on sheets you don’t care too much about or another form of towelling.
Wax play can be so sensual! Candles burning and hot sensation play makes for a very intimate session. Communication is vital during any play session, especially those that involve pain and submissive acts. Wax play is a great time to use dirty talk. Ask your partner “how does that feel?” or how “badly do you want to feel this wax?”
Don't forget your safe word!
You can’t just choose the cheapest candles from a typical department store. These candles will burn way too hot and are filled with skin irritants – not ideal for wax play.
Opt for candles that are specifically meant for wax play. This will be a much more enjoyable experience for everyone involved. A few of our Flirt favourites include:
This 100g candle heightens sensations and increases all levels of adrenaline. Made from wax and essence, this sensual Wax Play Candle is the perfect addition to your play session.
Complete with a pack of three different coloured candles, the Behave Sensuous Candles burn at a low temperature for extremely safe massage play.
Available in a multitude of scents, the Shiatsu Massage Candle wax can be applied directly to the skin. The stunning aromas fill any room, Raspberry & Vanilla Creme, Amber, Sandalwood, Patchouli.
Ready to get hot? Flirt has you covered! Browse our range of hot wax today to heat things up in your sex life.
In this blog, we will delve into the different types of lube and which types are best for toys. Whether you’re enjoying vaginal sex, anal, personal, or anything in-between, Flirt has you covered and slippery as one of the best vaginal or anal dildo shops Australia has to offer.
Short for lubricant, lube is a liquid or gel that prevents any unwanted friction. Friction can impact your play sessions in all the wrong ways, so lube helps to create a slippery and smooth space for any vaginal, anal, toy or solo play.
Why not just spit? Lube is better than saliva. Saliva can cause UTIs and yeast infections by spreading bacteria for vagina owners so better to try lube!
Lube can also be used for any part of the body for some sensory play and some people even use lube to insert tampons. There are types that are great for massaging and some that aren't safe for toys so let's get into it!
Water-based lube is a popular choice as it can be used for every type of play, even toys. It’s safe to use with condoms, latex, and non-latex. Water-based lube may even decrease the risk of condom breakage, it won't stain sheets or your nice lingerie and washes off the skin easily once you’re done. A couple of our favourites include JO Oral Delight in a delectable vanilla flavour that’s perfect for oral or BIO range for an organic and vegan option.
A great hypoallergenic option for those with sensitive skin, silicone lube is silky and smooth. Silicone lube is less likely to cause a reaction for people who are sensitive and can also last longer than other types of lubes.
Silicone lube is great for shower and water play because it doesn't wash away as easily. It can also be used with condoms.
A few downfalls of silicone lube is that it can deteriorate your toys by creating abrasions which can cause bacteria to grow. This is not ideal for sharing toys or if you have multiple partners. Our favourites include the Swiss Navy which has an easy one-hand pump design to keep you in the moment and the Uberlube with its oh so aesthetic packaging.
Perfect for sensual play time and massaging, oil-based lube is long-lasting. It’s great for all over body play and doesn't need to be reapplied often.
It’s not recommended to be used with latex condoms or pieces as it can increase the risk of rips and tears. Oil based lube can also cause yeast infections for vagina owners, and it can ruin your sheets or lingerie! Oil can also stain and can be difficult to clean up.
The Hemp Seed Massage Oil is packed with omega 3, 6, 9 fatty acids, great for sensitive skin.
No matter what your play session is calling for, Flirt has the lube for you. Don’t forget to pair your new lube with some fun new toys. Get wet with Flirt!
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The sex-world is filled with wonder and awe – are you ready to explore?
Simply put, pegging is a person penetrating an anus with a strapless strap on dildo. Not limited to but it is usually an act performed between heterocouples. In 2001, the term was coined by controversial sex educator, Dan Savage.
Pegging stimulates the prostate, giving a different form of pleasure to the traditional penis ejaculation. If you get it right, it's a world of pleasure! It can give a new power-dynamic, new play scenes, intense orgasms or emotional intimacy from being “filled”. Pegging can be domineering or it can be sensual - you decide!
Now you know, are you interested? Here’s a step-by-step guide to get started and hit those anal g-spots.
Who wants to try pegging? Whether you want to be on the giving or receiving side, the best place to start is by having the conversation with your partner. Think about why you want to try pegging. Do you want to give your partner some extra pleasure? Do you want to try a Dom/Sub scene? Do you simply want to try something new? Any reason is a good reason if it is in good faith to you and your partner.
Don't laugh, tease, or taunt the idea (unless that’s what your partner is into) – instead make the conversation a safe space for how you want the interaction to go down. Don’t forget to discuss boundaries – an absolute must with a new scene of play!!
After discussing the ins and outs (no pun intended) of your new play adventure, you need to gear up! What do you need? Here is a list of essentials for first-time peggers.
This is a no-brainer. Even if you’ve been playing with butt-plugs or other anal toys, lube is an essential part of any anal play. Unlike the vagina, your anus doesn’t self-lubricate when you get turned on so you need to make it wet to make sure everything goes smoothly. Few of our Flirt favourites for anal include Fist It Anal Relaxer Lube and the Swiss Navy Premium Anal Lube.
This is totally optional but can make things less daunting. Many people’s first thought when trying anal play is the fact that it can get “messy”. Even though this isn’t an every time occurrence for anal play, it can be something that plays on the mind of the receiver. Put those thoughts at ease and douche before you play – it’s a lot easier than you think. Try the Auto Douche or the Squeeze Clean Douche.
With great gear, comes great pleasure. Without the strap-on there is no pegging so take a look at a few of our pegging favourites; Lux Fetish Strap-on Pegging Set or Strap-U Charmed. Both these options come with a dildo, but you can buy singular harnesses and choose your own addition!
For first-timers, the best idea is to start small. Try our Scandal Pegging Panty Set which comes attached to panties - cute!
If the vagina-owner wants a bit of extra pleasure, there are strap-ins or strapless strap-ons. These offer pleasure for both the receiver and the wearer. The Happy Rabbit Strapless Strap-On from Flirt vibrates AND stimulates the clit.
Experimenting with some toys is a fun way to enhance your masturbation experience.
A stronger orgasm achieved with the help of a toy can be more effective at reducing sexual tension, reduce stress and even help you sleep better. A good orgasm releases endorphins and can pause your thoughts for a moment, giving your mind the break from anxious thoughts that it deserves! Masturbation or meditation - they’re both healthy practices.
Essentially, you don’t need permission, an event or any kind of significant reason to start trying sex toys. Anytime is the right time! Whether you’re feeling unsatisfied with just using your hands or are simply curious to see what a toy feels like, there’s really no wrong time to try something new.
Sometimes, no matter how good your partner is in bed, it can be hard to reach an orgasm through intercourse or even oral alone. Even if you always finish, spicing things up in your relationship with some toys can be a highly enjoyable and rewarding experience. Sex toys are especially designed to help you climax, with the right vibration, size and shape.
Toys can bring out another side of partners – a more playful, dominant, or submissive streak that you didn’t know they had. Whether you’re getting bored in the bedroom or just feeling a little more adventurous, bringing toys into a relationship can be a great idea at any time. Just take some care and consideration with how you approach the conversation of bringing toys into the relationship.
Some partners can feel intimidated by the suggestion, feeling like they aren’t performing as well as they could be. Explain to them that sex toys are meant to add something different and exciting to your relationship, ultimately enhancing the pleasure you’re already feeling.
If you’re new to toys, start with the basics. A toy that moves too much can seem a little daunting at first, so a gentle vibrator, pocket vagina or classic dildo are great to start with. For those with more experience and are ready for something a little more intense, try a toy with more movement like the Happy Rabbit Thrusting Vibrator or the Vagina and Anal Large Masturbator.
If you’re trying something new with company, there are toys that are especially designed to use with partners. For beginners, we recommend stimulating vibrations, like a remote controlled clit vibrator or a remote controlled cock ring. If you’re a little more experienced and want to get spicier, a double sided dildo or some bondage toys can take your intimacy experience to a whole new level.
As one of the leading online adult sex stores, Flirt will have you throbbing, dripping or weeping (if that’s your jam) with our cock stock.
Enhancing pleasure for you and your partner, a cock ring keeps you throbbing. With a heap of different types on the market; from vibrating styles and tightening leashes to classic silicone rings that you can keep in your pocket for after-party playing - the options are endless with a cock ring. Some of our favourites at Flirt include:
This fully adjustable cock ring is made from 100% medical grade silicone and is easy to put on. Colour coded beads adjust the leash without the need to change cock ring sizes - saving you buying multiple for different types of play. Super soft and durable, Boneyard Cock Leash Single can fit around your shaft, your balls or even both!
Made for couples, this cock candy offers endless functions to stimulate both you and your partner. The Satisfyer Endless Joy can be placed around the penis from above with the textured side facing forward to stimulate the clit while stimulating the testicles - but of course you can use it any which way you like!
As the name suggests, this classic cock ring swells your cock in the right ways. Soft, stretchable and available in a multitude of different sizes, the Cock Sweller is easy to use. Ideal for using around the shaft or testicles, the Cock Sweller creates the most throbbing erections while prolonging ejaculation.
Pleasing yourself alone doesn’t have to be dull - perk things up with a masturbator from Flirt. A few of our favourites include:
Perfect for scratching on-the-go itches, the compact Pocket Vagina Masturbator is realistic and small enough to go anywhere with you. Feeling smooth and fresh, take this sweet pussy with you on weekends away or even work trips to keep you level-headed.
With a skin like texture, these innovative little eggs are the ideal pocket piece. In a set of 6, each of the Satisfyer Masturbator Eggs have a skin-like texture, are flexible and designed for quick relief on-the-go.
The ultimate gift, the Winyi Male Gift Box contains an aluminium butt plug, adjustable double lasso, set of three cock rings and the Andrew and Lucas vibrators. This box of toys is the perfect gift for yourself or to a loved one for a bit of everything-fun.
With so many options on the market, there is something for everyone. Toys are a great way for you and your partner(s) to explore new things, experience different types of orgasms and find things you never even knew you liked.
Toys are not meant as a replacement for the sex you’re having with your partner(s), but simply a way to enhance the overall experience together. Toys do things our bodies can’t, like pulse and vibrate. It can increase the connection you have with your partner(s) and if used and communicated correctly, will definitely increase the pleasure.
Don’t fret, toys are normal! Toys can often be seen as taboo in a world where sex is so hush hush. At Flirt, we know sex is fun and we want the world to know it as well. Whether you want a strap on or a gentle vibration, Flirt has you covered.
Think about what sensations you want to feel, because there are so many toys for everything. Do you want to try some BDSM? Do you want anal play? Or maybe something like whips or sensation play. Thinking about shibari? Attend a class or watch a YouTube tutorial on how to safely do this with your partner(s). Assessing what you already like or what you want to enhance; oral sex, hand sex, rubbing on the outside or penetrative sex will help you on choosing the correct toys.
Start small like trying a cock ring or external toys first. Better yet, buy a starter pack!
These offer a range of everything in beginner friendly designs and are a great place to start if you’re stuck.
Some partners may feel threatened by the toys, thinking they’re not enough for you. Explaining that sex toys aren’t a replacement for anything but an enhancement to the overall experience can help put your partner(s) at ease.
Communication is key to any relationship and especially with sexual encounters and experiences. Chat about the different types of sex toys on the market and go through them together to see what each one does and which ones you would both like to try.
Think about what your partner(s) already enjoy in the bedroom. Do they like nipple stimulation? Try nipple clamps, suction pulls or a feather for gentle stimulation. Do they like anal play? Ask them if they would like to try plugs or dildos.
Chat about the different types on the market and go shopping together. There is no better bonding in a relationship than discovering things together. Go through the Flirt website and learn about toys with each other.
If your partner(s) is not keen on the idea, don’t force it. Understand why they aren’t interested. It’s never okay to pressure anyone into anything they don't want to do. There could be underlying past trauma or any other reason but lack of interest should be reason enough if you care for them.
Sex is exciting so remember to have fun choosing your new toys. Do your research on different types and assess what you and your partner both enjoy. When you’re ready, Flirt has you covered with all your sex toy needs. Your sex toy journey awaits!
]]>Asking for consent can be so sexy. Leaning into someone to kiss them and whispering, “can I kiss you?” is one of the most intimate ways to spark connection. This can increase the passion and sexual build-up of what’s to come. This makes for an exciting time when it comes to getting into bed. Consent can be used as a form of dirty talk such as “do you like that?”
Just as you wouldn’t go around a bar groping people, you shouldn't kiss or touch anyone without their consent. Asking for consent begins when you meet, continues in the bedroom and remains throughout the sexual experience. Even though a person has come home with you, that does not entitle you to their body. Checking in during sex is key in ensuring the consent remains and what the other person is okay with. Asking “can I touch you here?”, “can I use this?”, “would you like it if I did this?” or “are you okay with me doing this to you?” are all ways you can ask for consent during sex.
Creating and holding a safe space for you and your partner is crucial for all parties involved. Make sure it is an environment where desires, needs and wants are all communicated.
Whipping out your sex toys during sex can be exciting for some and nerve-racking for others. Even though the person you’ve received consent from has agreed to have sex with you, that doesn’t mean you can do whatever you want. Before opening up your treasure chest of toys, ask if they’re comfortable with using toys and which ones they would like to use. This can happen before you have begun having sex or once the party has started but be sure to ask! Once you have your consent from your sexual partner, Flirt has your sex store Wagga Wagga and Australia wide needs sorted.
Umms, maybes and a lack of answer are not forms of consent. No response is not consent. “Maybe” is not consent. “I'm not sure” is not consent. Unless you’re receiving a firm yes, it is not consent. If someone is intoxicated, consent should be negotiated while sober. Consider the position of power you are in when receiving consent. Are you older? Are you their boss? Do they feel pressured to say yes? A yes can also be a pressured yes, so consider this when asking.
What a person is wearing and how they're talking to you does not imply consent. Just because you have engaged in an act before with this person, does not entitle you to do it again.
Be aware of emotional cues through how your partner is responding, feeling, their body language, gestures and noises. If your partner is pushing away, silent, passive, crying or in pain, unless engaging in consensual BDSM play, which also needs to be strongly communicated prior to any play session, you should stop and check-in with your sexual partner.
You need an enthusiastic yes; a concrete form of yes to ensure the other person has consented. Remember consent can be revoked at any point and if you are on the receiving end of these questions, you are entitled to say no at any point.
The best way to engage in consensual sex is to check-in with your partner often. If there is any doubt in what you're doing or you're unsure if the person has given consent, it’s best to stop and check. Anything that is not an enthusiastic yes, is a no. Remember, consent is sexy and watching your partner enjoy sex is the ultimate form of pleasure.]]>Didn’t get any pleasure during Christmas? Need a bit of extra release after the stressful holiday season? We got chu boo…
If you haven’t tried this uniquely innovative toy, you are in for a real treat. With rotational pleasure in two directions and 10 functions of vibration, the combinations are endless. The only problem you’ll have with the PDX is not wanting to put it away.
Activated by water, this masturbation sleeve is oh-so-convenient! Stretchy and self-lubricating, this Whack Pack sleeve is designed to give you maximum pleasure, easily in the palm of your hand. Plus, it's simple to clean, so you can use it again and again and again…
Ahhhhh the Satisfyer Pro… we have no words. Designed to envelop the entire clitoris by creating a seal against the body, this toy features 10 vibration settings and 11 pressure wave levels, to get you wherever you need to be. This sensational item can be used with partners too!
Didn’t get enough play time with your partner(s) over the holidays? There’s nothing hotter than watching your partner get off on a new toy. Add a little extra to your relationship with a new couple toy, perfect for sharing the fun.
From beads to plugs, we have your anal desires sorted!
Whether you’re a seasoned pro or just starting an anal play journey, this Firefly kit is the ideal addition to any toy collection. With three sizes in the kit, these anal plugs glow in the dark so you can find them even when the lights are dim.
Designed to be pulled out at the point of climax, Shots are highly functional and are finished with a love heart at the tip, cute enough to display.
Got a daddy, master, mistress or sir you want to appease? Be a good little sub or rope bunny and get some new bondage toys to reign in the new year with your play pal.
Keep your partner(s) in check during pet or bondage play and make sure they know who owns them in the bedroom with a new collar.
Did you deserve a spanking for Christmas and didn’t get one? From slappers, floggers, paddles, crops and canes, Flirt has the impact toy to ensure you get the pleasure (or pain) you crave or beg for.
Whether you’re playing alone or with a partner, with this epic list of playful fun, you’re sure to forget all about those holiday sorrows. Treat yourself to some sexy toys, you know you deserve it!
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OK, so we always say ‘size doesn’t matter’ but just quietly, sometimes it does. I mean we have some Very Big Toys in our collection and there's a reason for it!
In this blog we would like to show you what we can offer the person that wants more.
True, it is a little more difficult to post your 15" King Cock without the postman taking that extra squeeze of the parcel but we guarantee that no one will ever know.
Just be careful that the kids aren’t looking over your shoulder as you unwrap it.
Have you been looking for that perfect girl in your life?
Sometimes the dating apps just don’t accurately describe who is swiping right and you might not find who you are looking for. Maybe you just want someone who doesn’t talk much?
Well we have a range of very big beautiful companions for you, like Bianca one of our Ultimate Fantasy adult sex dolls..
Moveable from head to toe, right down to her fingertips. With true lifelike attention to detail and super soft Fanta Flesh skin she will make all of your dreams come true. Standing at 5’4’’ you will fall in love with her intricate eyes, supple lips, realistic pussy, posable joints and lifelike toes.
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Very Big Wands!
Wands are a great toy to add to your collection and the best way to tell if a wand is decent, it's size! One of the larger more powerful wands is the PornHub Next Generation Spell Massager.
With a variety of changeable heads, 20 vibration patterns and 8 speeds to choose from, our wand set works like magic to enhance solo and partnered sessions alike. The textured head is designed for clitoral stimulation, featuring nubs and bumps for intense sensations. For simultaneous internal and external orgasms for her, simply switch to the rabbit attachment which targets both the G-spot and clitoris with powerful vibrations, For anal play, the anal beads attachment gives you complete control with three bead sizes from small to large.
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Very Big Plugs!
We have talked previously about butt plugs and the need to start small but what about those that like to take it to the max? If this is you, we challenge you to take a look at our King Sized Anal Shocker or Anal Ripples measured at 11.25 inches!
Enjoy that great, full feeling and long length from LoveToy. Smooth, flexible and very girthy, this is a challenge to take even advanced anal toy users to thrilling new places. You will be impressed once you get it in, it’s great to grind on because of its weight.
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Very Big Pump!
For the boys looking to increase their cock size and to become known for a very big toy, try our Bathmate Hydromax x40 The Bathmate Hydromax X40 is the ultimate in hydro-technology for penis development and health. It does all the Bathmate Hercules does and more. HYDROMAX generates 35% more suction force than the Bathmate Hercules.
How does a Bathmate pump actually make it bigger?
Unlike a gym routine, though, it takes just 15 minutes a day to get the best out of Bathmate. Just use your pump for 3 five-minute sessions in the bath or shower, and you'll be making a genuine, lasting difference to your size.
Right after you pump, you should notice a visible improvement. These temporary gains are exactly what you need if you're out to impress (it's why a lot of adult film stars use Bathmate just before shooting a scene), but they're not permanent.
By keeping up with a routine for longer, you're going to start making real, lasting improvements.
Like any workout, if you stop completely, your gains are eventually going to roll back, but even an occasional Bathmate session is usually enough to maintain your increased gains.
So whether you are after a Very Big Toy or looking to make your Toy Very Big, we have options for you.
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Is that the sound of your penis moaning?
Wipe the tears from your eyes for a minute fellas.
Keep reading and see what all the fuss is about! Not everyone is taken by the idea of Sounding but in fact, a lot of people do enjoy Sounding.
It’s becoming one of the fastest growing Fetishes among Penis owners.
Pleasure or Pain?
Some Penis owners Sound for pain and some for pure pleasure, it’s a wide known fact that the Sensation is like nothing else you could describe, orgasms are stronger and you can get direct Prostate Stimulation.
The pleasure in sounding comes from the direct contact of nerves which are located in the head of the penis, much like the clitoris for women, when stimulated it can amount for mass amounts of pleasure.
Urethral Sounding combined with Masturbation can lead to toe curling, moan-out-load, feel like your going to die in a good way Orgasms, sounds like a good time to me. If your getting bored with your usual form of Masturbation, maybe its time for you to try Sounding.
Sounding 101
Sounding is where a probe either made from Medical Grade Silicone, Metal or ABS Plastic, is inserted to the Urethra for either pleasure or pain.
Depending on which material you choose, each carry a different sensation.
Silicone or ABS Plastic sounding tools are light, smooth and are perfect for first time sounding as they are non-evasive when inserting.
Always ensure that the material is sterilized and 100% clean (free from dust and particles) as anything you can see externally on the product, will be carried internally.
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Tits out Tuesday should be a real thing.
In this world of overly sensitive people, maybe tits is a little crass in todays world but for todays titillating tales, I want to talk to you about all things tits, boobs, breasts, jugs, knockers. Whatever you like to call them, substitute for my word today.
Lets talk tits
First off ladies, check your tits at least once a month. If you notice any unusual lumps or bumps, please see your GP as soon as possible.
How to check them?
Getting started with the tits!
Now for the fun (bags – another name for them). We have lots of fun toys to stimulate your bits but to start at the beginning, lube is a great start for your nipple play as continual pinching and tweaking can cause some discomfort and chaffing. Plus flavoured lube such as System Jo Cotton Candy just tastes so damn good. Pjur Original silicone lube is a great addition to any tittie play as it will keep it's longevity of glide, especially if they're getting a constant massage!
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Some people, regardless of gender love titty torture or more commonly known as nipple clamps.
If you enjoy having your nipples tweaked, bitten or squeezed, clamps are the perfect toy as they allow you to enjoy the sensation while being hands free to roam other parts of the body. Even the most sensitive nipples can enjoy clamps as you can control how tightly they are attached. Lux Fetish feather nipple clamps are adjustable for your comfort. If you prefer extra and require vibration, our Colt "Grips" are a pair of powerful vibrating clamps and can be used by anyone.
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Pump those tits!
There are a range of nipple pumps for people who like to play there. Pumping any part of the body helps sensitivity by bringing the blood quickly to a certain area. Bad Kitty vibrating nipple cups have the best of both worlds. Where you clamp your nipples can create different sensations. For example, clamping at the base of the nipple, at the areola, traps the blood in the nipple, like a cock ring for your nipple. If you clamp closer to the tip of the tit it’s more likely to create a pain as pleasure experience.
Alternatively, you can get breast pumps which pumps the whole area of breast, except if you are big breasted (lucky you), it will cover "most of the area".
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Pulsate those nipples!
You can also use toys designed for other areas such as Winyi Joyce, essentially this is designed as a clit sucker (pulsator), but using on your nipples can also get those love juices flowing. The Trinitii by Sensuelle can also replicate a licking sensation to the nipples by it's suction and tongue flicker, applying this incredible toy to a nipple will instantly suck in and lick it like no tomorrow!
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Imagine tits vibrating.. you're welcome.
Many vibrating toys can be redirected to the tits. Satisfyer endless love is a toy with 3 powerful motors and over 100 vibration combinations that can be used on multiple parts of any body. Toys such as wands can also be used on the tits, as they have a deep rumbling sensation that not only enhance pleasure but make those tits move!
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Cool down or heat up those tits!
Finally, temperature play is another way to play. We have all felt or seen what happens when the cold weather hits our nipples.
Whether you use ice or a cooled down Glas straight dildo as a wand or Japanese drip candles for heat, varying temperatures can be extremely stimulating. Obviously your nipples are sensitive so always a good idea to temperature check whatever you are using. Try it on your inner arm before bringing it to your nipples.
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Lifelong masturbators learn pretty early on exactly what it takes to get themselves off. Once you’ve found what gets you going most people don’t really change that. While it's only natural to think there's not much else to be gained from something that isn't broken, there's also a huge pleasurable world out there waiting for you to explore it.
By changing up your routine even in the smallest way you could potentially open yourself up to a whole new form of pleasure, with even better orgasms.
Even something as small as changing the place or position you usually masturbate with can have a huge impact on your orgasm. It makes sense that there's a cap to the level of pleasure you can achieve by lying in the same place or in the same position every time.
If you're super-attached to the bedroom (or if it's your only option), switching up the position you touch yourself in can totally transform your masturbation experience. This can be as easy as sitting up, lying on your stomach or anything else that comes to mind. Even moving from the bedroom to the bathroom can open you up to a new world of water filled pleasure.
Porn has become a crutch for a lot of people, raising their expectations higher and higher with most mainstream porn moving away from sensual and erotic play to hardcore and basic styles. By simply looking down other avenues you can change your mindset or excitement levels from other platforms like webcams, Only Fans, masturbation games, or more specific fetish porn on paid or alternative sites.
If you really want to explore a more in-depth world of porn, you can’t go past women-lead porn or audio erotica. These avenues can offer a higher production value, better storytelling, and much more expansive visions of eroticism. If you’re an auditorial or verbal visualiser than we can’t recommend audio erotica enough, it lets you imagine exactly what you like, so there’s no way you won’t become aroused.
We recommend experimenting with erotica and porn that engages your mind more than the passive experience of a visual medium, too.
Edging isn’t the only way to explore the world of sensations, you can also play with patterns and speeds to find a new way to get off. You can do this manually or you can use some toys to play around with these new patterns and speeds. A lot of toys found in adult stores come with a range of patterns and speeds, like the Satisfyer Pro 2, that you can change with throughout your masturbation session. Many vibrator toys have a range of patterns and speeds that you can play around with to find the absolute perfect tempo for your pleasure session. You can even use these toys in more external ways, using them to stimulate your nipples, over your undies, or anything that pops into your mind.
If you want to find some new inspiration or toys to change up your masturbation routine, view our range of adult toys online, visit us in-store or contact our helpful team today!
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